💍 Your First-Month Engagement Checklist: Setting the Stage for “I Do” at the Historic Hampton House 1908

Congratulations — you’re engaged! ✨ The excitement, the ring, the endless possibilities… it’s all just beginning. The first month after saying “yes” is one of the most joyful and meaningful times in your life — but it can also feel a little overwhelming.

To help you start off strong (and stress-free), we’ve created a checklist of everything you should do in the first month of your engagement — all with a touch of Southern charm and the elegant ease of planning your big day at the Historic Hampton House 1908.

1. Celebrate and Soak It All In

Before diving into planning mode, take time to just be engaged. Host a small get-together with family and friends or enjoy a romantic dinner together. Snap those ring photos (because we know you want to!) and celebrate this new chapter — the planning can wait a few days.

2. Announce the Big News

Once you’ve shared your engagement with close loved ones, spread the word! Whether through engagement photos, a social media post, or personalized cards, announcing your engagement officially makes it feel real.

If you’re planning to host your wedding at the Historic Hampton House 1908, we love helping couples use our beautiful spaces for engagement photos — from the grand staircase to the wraparound porch, it’s the perfect setting to capture your “just said yes” moment.

3. Dream and Discuss

Before booking anything, sit down together and talk through your vision.

• What kind of wedding do you both imagine? (Elegant evening? Outdoor garden party?)

• How big or intimate do you want it to be?

• Which season feels right for your celebration?

This is your time to get inspired — scroll through Pinterest, tour venues, and visit locations like the Historic Hampton House, where timeless elegance meets customizable charm.

4. Choose Your Venue and Set a Date

Once you have your dream vision in mind, your next step is locking in the perfect venue and date. Your venue sets the tone for everything — décor, guest count, and even attire.

At the Historic Hampton House 1908, couples can choose from stunning indoor and outdoor spaces that adapt beautifully to any season. From the romantic Ladies’ Parlor to the Pavilion glowing with string lights, each setting offers something unique.

5. Draft a Guest List and Budget

Before moving forward with vendors or invitations, estimate how many guests you plan to invite. This helps you refine your budget and make venue and catering decisions with confidence.

Tip: At the Hampton House, our event staff can help you visualize your space setup and ensure every guest feels comfortable and included.

6. Start Researching Vendors

Begin reaching out to your key vendors — photographers, caterers, florists, and entertainment. The earlier you start, the better your options. Ask your venue for trusted local recommendations — at the Historic Hampton House, we’ve worked with incredible vendors who know the property inside and out, ensuring a seamless day.

7. Enjoy an Engagement Photoshoot

One of the most fun early steps! Capture this exciting season with professional photos. The Hampton House grounds, with our historic architecture and lush gardens, are a breathtaking choice for engagement shoots — elegant, natural, and full of storybook charm.

8. Begin the Wedding Binder (or Pinterest Board)

Keep track of ideas, inspiration, and bookings in one place. Include color palettes, décor ideas, and must-have photos for your big day. (Pro tip: Use photos from the Historic Hampton House for timeless inspiration that fits any style.)

9. Relax and Enjoy the Journey

Remember — you don’t have to plan everything at once. The first month is about celebrating love and laying the foundation for your perfect day. You have time to make decisions, adjust your vision, and savor the excitement.

At the Historic Hampton House 1908, we believe your engagement should be filled with joy, not stress. From your first tour to your final toast, we’re here to make every moment as magical as your “yes.” 💍✨